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  • Before Veeroyal, there was Donisha, the little madame!

    Before Veeroyal, there was Donisha, the little madame!

    If you’re Dominican (from Dominica, the nature island), you know exactly what I mean when I call somebody a little madam. Not necessarily too grown for their age. Not rude or troublesome. Just… a little madam. Full of life and personality. Knows what she wants to say and is absolutely going to say it. Stylish, outspoken, confident, and somehow carrying herself like she’s been here before. That’s how I remember Donisha Humphries. Long before I and her now 11k and counting Instagram followers, knew her as Veeroyal, I knew her as the daughter of one of my colleagues at the all-boys Primary School, where I taught for several years. She would come by after her own school was over, and even then, Donisha was hard to miss. She was spunky, expressive, well-spoken and already developing that unmistakable sense of self that anyone who follows her today will recognize immediately.

    And she certainly didn’t get the quiet gene from her mother. Her mom was definitely one of the reasons why I enjoyed teaching back in the day. Bless her heart. Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of watching that little girl grow up—and, more recently, watching her turn all of that personality into something remarkable.

    Today, Veeroyal has built a growing online community of more than 11,000 followers, but what I love most about what she has created isn’t simply the numbers. She hasn’t had to dilute herself to do it. The style is hers. The humor is hers. The confidence is hers. And that Dominican accent? VERY hers. I am Dominican myself and when I hear Donisha give her vide narratives I am rolling at the juiciness! But perhaps that authenticity is exactly why people connect with her. Whether she’s putting together an outfit, sharing pieces of everyday life or taking her audience along as she explores beautiful corners of Dominica, there is something refreshingly Donisha about it all. And now, that reach is beginning to stretch beyond Dominica, with opportunities to experience and showcase other Caribbean destinations coming her way as well.

    Watching that evolution has been especially sweet for me because when I look at Veeroyal today, I can still see traces of that little madam who used to come around after school. She didn’t suddenly find her personality when she found social media. She simply found a bigger stage for it. So, naturally, I had questions. And Donisha—being Donisha—had answers. Guys I hope that you enjoy this interview as much as I did. I am thrilled to share this one as my “come-back” interview after almost a two-year hiatus.

    1. What was the first moment you realized you had this kind of influence? Was there a particular post or event that changed everything?

    I don’t even think it has fully clicked for me yet that I have that much influence. I’m always sooo happy whenever someone tells me they tried something or went somewhere because of me, and I’m like, “Huh??? Really?” lol. I think that’s the part that still shocks me the most: realizing people genuinely trust my opinion and experiences enough to act on them. I think because I’m still very much just myself online, it sometimes feels surreal when I remember how many people are actually watching and engaging with what I do.

    2. Your dad is from our sister island, Antigua. What’s your favorite thing about the country and culture there?

    Yes! My dad is from Antigua, so that connection has always been a huge part of who I am. My favorite thing about Antigua is definitely the fooddd. I love love love ducuna so bad lol. But another thing that’s really close to my heart is the beaches. I feel most at peace when I’m next to the sea, and I genuinely think that comes from spending so much time in Antigua growing up because, honestly, some of the best beaches in the world are there.

    3. How did growing up in Dominica—or, rather, between islands—shape your sense of style and confidence?

    Growing up between both islands really shaped my love for travel and meeting new people. Because I traveled back and forth so often, and most of the time alone, it made me very independent from young. I also developed a real knack for talking to people and adapting to different spaces and personalities.

    4. What’s one little-known fact about you that might surprise people?

    I’m actually an introvert lol. People may not be able to tell because of social media, but I genuinely loveeee isolation and my personal space. I definitely have a switch; I turn it on when needed and then turn it right back off again lol. Another thing people may not know is that I’m a huge creative in every sense. I love art, fashion, music and anything connected to creativity, and not just on a surface level either. I love history, museums and storytelling.

    ******Also, one thing I absolutely have to highlight is that you were actually the first person to ever get me to do a professional photoshoot and made me realize how much I loveddddd it.*******

    Ok so Veeroyal chose violence and had me tearing up so bad I couldn’t see straight. Photoshoots and videoshoots are soooooo precious to me and I had no idea I was giving someone their first. Full circle is crazy!

    5. Do you remember the wildest, boldest and/or craziest outfit you’ve ever worn? How did people react?

    Fashion honestly comes second nature to me because I’ve always loved clothes and dressing up. I think one of my favorite outfits to date was definitely my look for Soca & Mimosas in 2023, where I wore the pearl-beaded top. I wanted something different but simple, and it was just that.

    6. Cacao tea or coffee? (Hehe!)

    Cocoa tea every single time, and if not that, then definitely bush tea. I don’t like coffee.

    7. What fears, if any, did you have to overcome to step into the public eye so boldly? You’ve built a strong brand and a solid social media following—congratulations!

    To be honest, I don’t think I really had fears stepping into the public eye because I truly believe there’s a niche and audience for everyone. I still honestly cannot fathom that over 10,000 people like me that much, but hey lol. One thing that has always been important to me, though, is keeping my authentic self. No matter what opportunities come my way, I never want to lose who I genuinely am.

    8. When did businesses first start reaching out to you, and how did you decide which opportunities to say yes to?

    For me, it’s always about what aligns with my brand and my audience. I’m actually very picky about the brands I choose to work with or give a voice to because it has to feel true to me. It has to be something I genuinely love or would naturally use. I can’t fake it, I swearrrr lol.

    9. Cricket, football, or something else?

    Definitely cricket. I miss the West Indies games so bad. Please come back 😭

    10. How do you balance being authentic with the expectations of brands or your audience?

    I don’t do anything that takes away from me as a person or my brand. It always has to feel genuine and true to who I am. I truly have no problem saying no if something doesn’t align naturally with me.

    11. In five words or short phrases, what does a day in your life look like when you’re preparing for a major event or campaign?

    Planning, nonstop communication, outfit coordination, editing mode and very little sleep.

    12. How do you handle criticism, whether it comes from strangers or even family and friends?

    Lol, I crash out 😀 jk jk. Honestly, it depends. A lot of things genuinely don’t bother me because I simply couldn’t care less about certain opinions. But for the things that do affect me, I’m definitely calling my sister or my momma, chileee 😭 Once I vent to them, though, I take it to the Lord in prayer and move on. One thing I’ve noticed over the years is that I personally never really have to fight to defend myself because there are people who genuinely love and support me, and they naturally do that for me.

    13. What’s your favorite color, and why?

    Ouuu, I love so many colors, honestly, but no matter what, I think pink will always be my number one favorite. It’s just such a girly color, and it makes me happy every single time.

    14. What advice would you give someone who wants to stand out but is afraid to be seen?

    I would tell them that the things that make you stand out are usually the exact things people end up loving you for. Being seen can feel scary at first, but you can’t shrink yourself forever because of fear. The right people will connect with you when you’re genuinely yourself.

    15. What has been the most surreal moment of your journey so far?

    Ooof, honestly, the support and the love. Realizing that my voice is actually being heard and that people genuinely listen to me is insane sometimes. Like… me??? 😭 It still feels surreal.

    16. If you could go back and speak to your younger self—maybe the little girl I knew—what would you tell her about the woman you are today?

    I would tell my younger self to stay focused and keep doing exactly what she’s doing. I’d also tell her that the women she grew up idolizing, like you, Mel, she actually grows up to become just like them one day.

    Ok guys so this is me. Bawling my eyes out! I for sure did no expect that. You just never know who is looking at you.

    17. What’s next for you? Are there any dream projects or new directions you’re excited about?

    Right now, my biggest focus is honestly growing VeeRoyal again. I think over the last year, I poured so much into other people’s brands and businesses that I unintentionally stopped pouring into myself. I shrunk myself drastically, and it definitely took a huge mental toll on me creatively and personally.

    This year, I made a promise to myself to post more, create more and do more of the things that genuinely make me happy. So my focus this year is choosing myself again, both as VeeRoyal and in my personal life too.

    18. Is there a project or piece of work you’ve done that you’re particularly proud of? Why? It doesn’t have to be connected to your work as an influencer.

    There are honestly quite a few projects I’ve worked on behind the scenes that I think people don’t even realize I was involved in because I actually love being behind the scenes lol.

    I think one thing I’m really proud of is helping brands and businesses develop stronger identities and experiences through marketing, creativity and storytelling. Seeing ideas come to life from just a concept and watching people connect with them afterwards is something that genuinely fulfills me.

    19. Describe yourself—or your life right now—in three words.

    Faithful, evolving, multidimensional.

    Thank you again for this opportunity and for always pouring into me over the years. It truly means more than you know.

  • Stephanie Charles. Daughter of the Group Scout Leader. 4th Dominica St. Alphonsus Scout Troop.

    Stephanie Charles. Daughter of the Group Scout Leader. 4th Dominica St. Alphonsus Scout Troop.

    1. Thank you for agreeing to this interview. Blessings.
      May you please introduce yourself and what you do for those who may not
      know who you are?


    Hi! My name is Stephanie Charles. I am a student of the Dominica state
    College who is currently majoring in tourism. I am also a member of the St
    Alphonsus scout troop which I enjoy in my free time. This is where I
    showcase my leadership skills and engage with my fellow members. I am
    currently a patrol leader of my troop. I am also currently running for Vice President of the School Government Association at my school.

    2. Let’s start with the randoms! Favourite colour and why?

    My favorite color…… well to be exact I have three favorite colors. They
    are black gold and white. Those colors really stood out to me because I
    believe it showcases my personality and how warm of a person I am.

    3. How does it feel to be the daughter of the Group Scout Leader, and do you
    feel that it places added pressure on you as an individual?

    I was born into scouting, so being daughter of the group scout leader feels
    like a reward. It does not place any pressure on me because I look up to
    my father as my guide and I am continuously learning my skills and traits from him. Being able to have leadership skills handed down to you. It’s like a blessing as well as responsibility.

    Group Scout Leader Mr. Steve Charles presenting an award to Long-standing member; Christus Tavernier. In the background on the left is Mr. Jefferson Joseph who had been a member of the troop for more than forty years.

    4. What’s your favourite thing about scouting?

    My favorite thing about scouting is the emphasis on teamwork and outdoor activities inclusive of many skills. This fosters personal growth and a sense of community.

    5. When did you take the decision to become a scout and how has it been for
    you so far?

    I took the decision to become a scout on September 5th 2021 . I would just say that so far it has been a wonderful experience.

    Stephanie carrying the flag of Antigua at the opening ceremony of the 2024 OECS Credit Union Conference, held last September on the island.

    6. What’s your most cherished scouting memory?

    My most cherished memory of scouting was visiting the founder of our group
    Mr. Roy Royer. It was an honour meeting the man who started this present group, creating leadership and discipline.

    Steve Charles, Group Scout Leader and Stephanie’s dad presenting troop founder Mr. Roy Royer with yet another token of appreciation. This was done on the troop’s 70th anniversary in July 2024.


    7. Random number two. Favourite meal and why? (And can you cook it?)

    My favorite food is honey-barbque chicken. Cooking has been one of my main
    passions growing up and I enjoy cooking my favorite meal as well as discovering new cooking skills and menus.

    8. You are patrol leader presently, what was some of the process to obtain
    that position? some of the difficulties that your troop in particular is facing
    at the moment?

    To become patrol leader, I demonstrated leadership skills by actively
    participating in troop activities, earning the trust of my peers, and showing
    commitment to the troop’s goals. I also communicated my interest in the
    position to my scoutmaster and received recommendations from fellow
    scouts.
    Currently, our troop is facing challenges such as low attendance at
    meetings, difficulty in planning engaging activities, and a lack of new
    recruits. We are working on strategies to increase participation and foster a
    more welcoming environment for newcomers.

    The troop was on the way from the Scout Den to the National Youth Rally, November 1st 2024. It is tradition to march to and from the Parade Venue. Photo by Robert Larocque.

    9. What is one, or a maybe a few things about your troop that make(s) it
    stand out?

    One thing that makes our troop stand out is our commitment to community
    service. We regularly organize volunteer events adn activities to support local charities.
    Additionally, we emphasize skill-building through unique activities like
    outdoor survival training and leadership workshops, fostering teamwork
    and resilience among members.

    10.How did you enjoy the last two parades? The National Youth Rally and
    Memorial Day Parade?

    The last two parades were great. we had satisfactory attendance, and our National Youth Rally display was flawless! We performed in collaboration with the Dominica Girl Guides. All in all it was great.

    This great shot above was taken by Robert Larocque at the 2024 National Youth Rally. The troop extends heartfelt thanks for these lovely photos!

    11. Random number three. Cake or Ice-cream, and favourite flavour?

    I like both, but my favorite ice cream is grape nut.


    12. What has scouting done for you as an individual?

    Scouting has helped me develop valuable life skills such as leadership,
    teamwork, and problem-solving. It has fostered a sense of responsibility,
    community service, and outdoor skills, while also promoting personal
    growth and resilience through various challenges and experiences. It has made me a better person.


    13. What’s one probably unknown fact about you that may surprise
    people?

    That I used to write my own songs, I love singing and showcasing my talent,
    I am also very soft hearted. I love helping others and caring for others
    even though they might have wronged me.

    14. How do you feel when you put on your scout uniform? Is it the same
    feeling like the very first time (if you remember)?

    Putting on my scout uniform brings a sense of pride and belonging. While
    the excitement might not be as intense as the first time, it still evokes a
    strong connection to the values and camaraderie of scouting.

    Above are some more spectacular shots by Robert Larocque at this year’s (2024) National Youth rally.

    15. What are some things that you would like to see happen for your
    troop?

    I would like to see more opportunities in various forms presented to, or offered to my troop, as well as more outdoor camps and activities.

    16. If you could snap your fingers and have 5 things appear instantly for
    the troop, what would they be?

    a) First aid kits

    b) Camping gear (tents, sleeping bags)

    c) Cooking supplies (portable stove, coal pot, Barbeque grill, utensils)

    d) Craft materials (paint, brushes, paper)

    e) Team-building games and activities equipment

    A small donation of one first aid kit and three practice drum pads recently made by member and troop secretary.

    17. What would you say to a young person doubting whether to join the
    movement, particularly your troop?

    I would encourage them to consider the values and experiences they could
    gain by joining. Being part of a scout troop offers opportunities for friendship building, various skill development, and personal growth. It’s a chance to make a positive impact on your and the wider community while having fun and creating lasting memories. Ultimately, it’s about finding a supportive group that shares your interests and passions.

    18. Describe yourself/ life in three words.

    Adaptable
    Attentive
    Thoughtful


  • The Modern Day Goddess. Meet Chelsea!

    The Modern Day Goddess. Meet Chelsea!

    Chelsea and I went to the same high school. As far as I can remember, she was always down to Earth and very chill. I have never heard her name mixed up in any drama, and till to this day. When I discovered her personality and vibe as “The Modern Day Goddess”, and having recently started my spiritual journey, I was instantly attracted. Everything about her aesthetic gives me life. It was truly a pleasure doing this interview. Love and light Chels!

    1. Thank you for agreeing to this interview. Blessings.
      May you please introduce yourselves and/or your profession for those
      who may not know who you are?

    A pleasure to be a part of this interview Navy.
    For those who may not know me, I am Chelsea Williams a Creative
    Soul, reflecting that in my 3D as a Creative Marketing Strategist also
    known as The Modern Day Goddess.

    1. What’s one little known fact about you that may come as a surprise to
      people?

    I have a twin. Lol.

    GASP!

    3. You’ve lived in and out of Dominica for quite some time respectively,
    how has this shaped who you are?

    This transition has been the epitome of shape shifting in the tapestry
    of who I am continuously, consciously becoming. It has given me the opportunity to expand my entire life.
    Experiencing life out of Dominica has allowed me to evolve at my true
    Soul’s level. Now don’t get me wrong, I did not have the worst childhood or teenage years however, I naturally have a subtle rebellious Spirit. So being in Dominica I was not always in trouble, but when I WAS…. That ripple effect puts you in a chokehold. You’re
    bound to learn and gain a few lifetimes of lessons out of just that one. So being able to live in and out of The Nature Isle, pretty much opened me up to a new balance in my life.

    4. Were you raised to be of a certain religion and has that changed?

    Though predominantly raised in a Catholic home, my family
    is connected to people from different walks of life, so I have
    always been in a position to experience other spiritual spaces
    as a child. Which honestly has always kept my mind open
    when it came down to Religion and different Spiritual Beliefs.

    5. You give off a very calm and cool vibe whenever we meet and always
    post about being in the flow of life. You’re also the Founder and CEO
    of your brand: Modern Day Goddess. It involves Travel, Beauty,
    Holistic Wellness and Canna-Tourism. I’d say we are speaking to a
    pretty accomplished individual. Do you thank a higher power for your
    success?

    Why thank you Mel! They say “pressure buss pipes?” Or forms diamonds? Lol
    Definitely giving thanks to a higher power but also to myself.
    If I was not able to show myself the same grace and favor for my success in my life, I’d never truly believe that I would be worthy of the success I have achieved.

    6. Can you share one experience where you knew that you were
    absolutely and undoubtedly guided and connected to a higher power?


    There are many instances when it came to the unfolding in the grand scheme of how things play out in my life, but one in particular happened 2 days before the quarantine phase of the covid pandemic.
    At that time, I was focused on building success in my stability as a creative, so I began to pop up in creative spaces, be of service and network within the Houston creative community where I found the perfect Mentor and basically family to help me do so, Shelbi Nicole.
    I met Shelbi when I volunteered on her latest Art Installation at the time, Whimsy World where her character and values immediately aligned with mine. I honestly was just truly
    happy to be a part of something I am passionate about and creating groundbreaking experiences in the Art World. A few months passed since the Whimsy World Installation, and we were just about to enter the mandatory lock down phase of Covid, and it’s like my Spirit knew something was coming, but not I could have guessed that’s what it would’ve been. That day I was on my server shift, and the dining restaurant industry went ghost. No one was coming in, only to get orders and I was just in awe as I was seeing and experiencing these changes in real time. If anyone has been a server, you know that tips are where it’s at financially. That day I swore I cried and pleaded with God that “I just don’t wanna do this anymore.” That I needed a way out. The next morning, I had some time to myself before my closing shift and found myself scrolling on IG and saw Shelbi was working on a new art mural and I immediately messaged her and asked her if she needed any help, and just left it as that. I shot my shot and the very next day she responded! High and behold she in fact did need help and I could come that very morning! Your girl also had to go in as a server at that same time. I sat down on my bed, and I talked to God about it. We surely had to have a “reasoning” about this one because it required my faith in my decision. I can go paint and be happy, but possibly lose my job as a server because it would require me to call out, and they were already cutting hours due to the pandemic. Can you believe I got dressed and went in 20 mins before my server shift, spoke with a manager and told her what the situation was, and she let me go. Clearly my art clothes were already packed in my bag so I could go directly to be happy and enjoy painting the town. Next day and months after we went through the different lockdown phases. From who are essential workers and while everyone was quarantined, and had to be indoors, that leap of faith set me on a path to finding success in stability not only as a creative but within myself. Traveling around Texas, adding some upliftment and color to businesses and the lives of people. I’d say that was undoubtedly guidance by a higher power.

    Did y’all catch “High and behold?” Haha This girl is something else.

    7. What’s your favorite song and why?

    I truly do not have one favorite song. There are so many
    genres, lyrics and artists to reflect my many moods, no way
    could I pick just one.

    8. If you were to talk to a glass of water that you will then drink, what
    would you tell it?

    “You the sh*t girl!!” Lol

    Hahaha! I’ll add that to my list of things I say to my water before drinking.

    9. Though there is a slow change, Spirituality is not widely accepted on
    the island, and even in the Caribbean region (Openly anyway). Were
    you afraid or doubtful to let the public know where you stand on
    spirituality and holistic wellness?


    You know what? I actually felt liberated to share my spiritual and alternative holistic wellness journey with the public. Not for them, but more so me. It really stabilized me. Helped with my faith and confidence to not focus on what outsiders may see me as, because I KNOW ME.


    10. How do your close friends and family feel about your choice of belief,
    and has it affected business for you?

    I’d say they love me, so they truly have no choice but to accept me for who I am. Lol
    Seriously though, they 1st handedly know where I have been which has led to where I am today, so they have a deep understanding of my life choices. On the other hand, when it comes down to the business aspects of Modern Day Goddess it simply propelled and began to positively take hold.


    11. Tell us about your role at MOCA. Are you enjoying it and did you
    manifest it?

    Someone get Michael on the phone. Lol. My role at MOCA | Modern Caribbean LLC | is a dream come true! I am blessed to say that I don’t have a specific “role”, as I
    get to implement all my skills and talents within different facets of the company as we continue to grow. Did I manifest this opportunity? I’d say absolutely!

    12. Do you have a vision board and if yes, can you share ONE thing
    that’s on there and whether or not you have successfully manifested
    it?

    I actually don’t have a physical vision board. Have not done
    one since 2021-2022. I’d say my current practice is more
    through visualization meditations.

    13. You’re a customer of my small business Mantraz Plant Nursery. God bless you sis! As a certified Feng Shui Practitioner, can you give a little insight on the best places to place your plants?

    And such a happy and satisfied customer I am!
    I always encourage people to include plants into their homes as it encourages a positive flow of chi which has considerable effects on our health, finances, happiness, relationships and overall, our wellbeing.
    For example, the Peace Lily plant harbors good fortune, luck and creates A PLEASANT ENVIRONMENT in ANY room, as it’s an air purifier. Snake Plants are used to protect your space from low energy and are best placed at the entrance of your home. Cleanses any negative energy that one may come in with people from places outside our home.

    14. Are you currently encountering, or have ever you encountered
    any problems that are possibly unique to your spirituality?

    I have not, since I see things more as a challenge, rather than
    a problem.

    15. Before you became who you are today, what were your views
    on the spiritual beliefs that you now hold?

    Honestly, because I was raised in the Caribbean, the spiritual teachings I now hold are things that were not talked about in our households openly. So, I never saw anyone in my family whip out a tarot deck like I would today, or crystals. It would be a bible or a rosary, so these are beliefs I grasped literally on my awakening journey.

    Once again! This resonates with me! Even today for me as a professional reader, there are clients who hire me for readings and go the extra mile to ensure that no one knows about it. I am sworn to secrecy when it comes to my client’s business and I let them know that, but some are still so afraid of anyone else finding out that they’ve had a tarot reading.

    16. You are a spiritual coach, certified Reiki and Feng Shui
    Practitioner. When did you know that this was the path you wanted to
    be on and was it a gentle or a rude awakening?

    It was a WILD RIDE, and I felt no one would truly understand my journey. Yes we can share with others what we are experiencing while we awaken, but when it comes down to it all only you and God knows the whirlwinds of life you are currently in. This jump started me on a path to find healing remedies that kept me grounded, cool, calm and collected on my own. Plus, residing in the US as an island girl at heart, there were no clear blue waters or refreshing rivers and air.
    I couldn’t replenish and cleanse my aura and be free, so I had to get creative and dig deeper into my healing. Plants made me feel better, art brought me peace and before I knew it, I realized the techniques I was doing were real things! Things I never learned, heard about or practiced in the Caribbean. Though now as I reflect, and remembering my mom at home, those were techniques she herself used. Placements of things that brought different elements of peace, love and safety in our home.

    17. Is there any aspect to your belief you are particularly proud of?
    why?

    My faith! In society we are taught that seeing is believing, but what about trusting more in the things we don’t see? The things we feel deeply within the spirit?
    I believe sometimes things require a certain level of trust from us, regardless of if it’s yet to be revealed to us.

    18. What would you say to someone who tells you that they want to
    be as enlightened and connected as you are?

    Though enlightenment is a solo journey, we live in a society
    now where you can seek Masters and Spiritual Guides you TRUST, who can assist you through your journey. It changes your life, so you have to be flexible and open to it (change.) Have no attachments and be open to the journey because what no
    longer aligns with your spirit in your life, will dissipate from our life.

    This resonates with me so much. You really have to be willing to let go! People, places, things, situations, memories, grudges, promises. We become totally new people and no longer identify or align with our past selves.

    19. Describe your life in three words.

    Beautiful. Balanced. Divine.

  • The saving grace of the 4th Dominica St. Alphonsus Scout Troop. Group Scout Leader; Mr. Steve Charles.

    The saving grace of the 4th Dominica St. Alphonsus Scout Troop. Group Scout Leader; Mr. Steve Charles.

    Hello my dear readers. I hope by now that you guys have read my post on sister blog “Story Mwen To Tell” where I shared some of my precious scouting memories, and that’s what brought you here. If not, and you’re reading this first, then head on over after to read the other. You won’t regret it.

    https://storymwentotell.wordpress.com/2024/07/26/scouting-a-precious-commodity-that-we-cannot-afford-to-lose/

    As I mentioned in the other blog, Mr. Charles approached me early 2022 and told me that he needed help in revamping the dying, if not already dead troop. I gave my word that I would and today we can say that we’ve got our head above water, at least.

    I decided to interview Mr. Charles because during our conversations he would always reveal things about the troop that I had no idea of. He wasn’t just retelling stories either, he was speaking from experience. Having recently interviewed Mr. Roy Royer who founded the troop in 1954, also as a massive revamp of the then dying 4th Dominica Scout Troop. He could not use the same name and so added the name of the parish. Mr, Royer, at the time of his interview with me was 98 (now 99) and so was having a little trouble giving details. I saw the importance of getting as much documented as possible and so I then decided to obtain and immortalize Mr. Charles’ many accounts of events and activities, while he was still young and the memories though quite some time ago, still crisp with detail.

    Mr. Charles would like the public both in Dominica, and overseas to know that the 4th Dominica St. Alphonsus Scout Troop is very much alive and are recruiting new members. Boys from age 6 and girls from age 14. Interested persons can contact the troop’s executive via phone +1767 277 0152. Email: infostalphonsus@gmail.com, or via visit during regular Friday afternoon scout meetings from 5pm at the Scout Den, located at the Goodwill Parish Hall. With that said, do enjoy my interview with present Group Scout Leader of the legendary 4th Dominica St. Alphonsus Scout Troop: Mr. Steve Charles.

    • Thank you for agreeing to this interview. May you please introduce yourself for those who do not know who you are.

    My name is Steve Charles and I am currently the Group Scout Leader and Band Major (Mace Man) of the 4th Dominica St. Alphonsus Scout Troop. I have been a member of this troop for the past thirty-five (35) years. I joined at the age of five. Please don’t try to guess my age. Hahaha

    GSL Charles on his way to start the parade. National Youth Rally 2022.
    A brilliant capture of the troop for the National Youth Rally 2023, by Flex Photography Plus.
    • What is your favourite thing about scouting?

    There are so many things that I love about scouting, but I believe my favourite is the discipline. It’s the most important. It encourages one to become a future leader and gives the survival skills necessary for any type of disaster.

    Knot tying session at the scout den.
    • When did you become the Group Scout Leader and how has it been so far?

    I took up the position of GSL in August of 2021 when I decided to revamp the troop. At the time the troop was dormant with only three boys attending scout meetings. Three from a troop that once had more than four hundred active members. I guess migration and even the Covid_19 pandemic among other factors are to be blamed. We did the groundwork and slowly the numbers began to climb. An election was then held when the membership began to pick up and again, I was nominated and voted in as GSL. In my time of being a young boyscout, it was so different. There were not so many distractions, and we definitely had no access to the internet or technology like children do today. It is now very challenging to recruit new members. There seems to be a lack of interest. I however have a strong Executive team and a few dedicated parents who make me feel that even the smallest rock can take down the giant before us. Special shout out to Yola Toussaint, Carissa Dangleben, Rhymer Alfred, Laura Deschamps our Executive Treasurer, Leandra Savarin, and all the other parents/scouts/executive members making the necessary sacrifices of time and energy to fight this good fight. Sincere thanks also to Ms. Lydia Leblanc, our Attached Youth Officer. In the early days of our revamp, sometimes she would be the only one there to help me with the troop members.

    Let me just insert here, Ms. Leblanc has been acting youth officer for the Roseau North and Valley district for eight years. She has been with the Youth Division since 2012, first working as a facilitator. then center manager, followed by acting youth officer since 2016. She is a wonderful addition to our circle of supporters and helpers.

    Ms. Lydia Leblanc
    Members of the 4th Dominica St. Alphonsus Executive team on a visit to speak with Her Excellency the President, Mrs. Sylvanie Burton. On the left; Melinda Ulysses (ME! 😀 secretary) and Steve Charles (GSL and Band Major). In the Center, The President who is also the head of all scouting on the island. Automatic role with the presidency. One the right; Yola Toussaint (Scout. Scout parent. Troop Pro and PRO for the National Scout Association) and Laura Deschamps (Troop treasurer and NSO Treasurer)
    Exec member and Scout parent Rhymer Alfred alongside GSL Steve Charles at DBS Radio on July 20th 2024. Youth Vibes Program. Promotion of the troop and invitation to the public to help us celebrate our 70th anniversary. This session was organised by our attached youth office, Ms. Lydia LeBlanc.
    • What is your most cherished scouting memory? (For this we have the actual interview audio. Press play! 🙂

    I can’t help but laugh at this. Mr. Rawle was something else. He always seemed to be a step ahead of so many things. I remember when we travelled to England for the jamboree, it was a long drive to Hyland’s Park and we all (except for him of course) fell asleep. When we woke up, he had said to us “You guys didn’t take note of a single landmark just in case we need it. I could walk my way back to the airport because I memorised the route. That should be some points deducted.” Man oh man.

    • What are some of the difficulties that your troop in particular is facing at the moment?

    I would have to say that our biggest hurdle at the moment is membership. There is a lack of interest in joining the movement, and I’ve spoken to other youth group leaders and they expressed the same sentiments. The numbers seem to be dwindling or stuck across the board of organisations. Our troop will be seventy years old on the 26th of this month (July 2024), and we refuse to let it die. We have embarked on promotion and recruitment drives in various schools and even the state college. I don’t think that the young ones understand the power of scouting in their life. They don’t know what it can do for them. Our troop produces so many successful members of society. We are exploring other creative ways to rope them in. Big shout out to the Convent Preparatory School who really rallied around their students when they were seen in uniform and on parade. Special thanks to Mrs. Lawrence, Principal of the Convent Preparatory School.

    Cub Pack leader Adnan Derrick and student of the Convent preparatory school, getting ready (falling in) to commence their parade. His mother Yola Toussaint is also a scout and Executive member.

    I am making an appeal to the current parents of the boys in the troop as well as the future ones, to give Mr. Charles, his leaders and executive members ALL THE SUPPORT that you can. It is a necessary relationship. Children listen to and pattern on their parents, therefore if they see dedication to the troop and respect for the leaders, they will automatically follow. Commit to your children being in the troop and they will commit to wearing and properly representing in the uniform. Pay the subscription. Take part in fund raisers. Come to Church Parade. We cannot do it alone.

    • What is one, or maybe a few things about your troop that make it stand out?

    My troop is most likely the longest serving troop on the island to date, and maybe even in the Caribbean. We were at one point the largest, boasting over four hundred (400) active members. Let’s not even get started on the scout band.

    The Scout Band on parade for the Jean Pierre Caribbean Netball Tournament Ceremony, 2023. Like the good old days, the Troop was called upon to do the Flag Break and to provide music for the parade.

    That’s a whole interview on its own. We have been recognized for a certain level of discipline and prestige in the way that we carried ourselves and duties. This particular troop has seen some of the most successful people on the island and even abroad for those who have migrated. We have members who are now in the army, navy and air force. We have teachers, business owners, lawyers and doctors, government ministers and entertainers. Even if some our members are not popular, they are good, upstanding members of society. I believe they can all give some credit to the discipline received in the troop as one of the reasons for their success. We are also the only troop named after the church parish that they serve. You see this tree here? We planted that! I remember like yesterday. We even helped to carry large sea stones from the bay side (Pottersville) to the church yard when the new St. Alphonsus Church was being built. We did it all for service to God, community and country.

    One the left, The St. Alphonsus Catholic Church boldly displaying the sea stones that Mr. Charles remembers carrying and, on the right, the Flamboyant tree planted by the troop when Mr. Charles was just a boy. Has anyone guessed his age yet? haha
    Khearn Bertrand who was an active troop member and is now int he US Army, encouraging the youth to embark on their scouting journey. We salute you Khearn!
    • What is an unknown but surprising fact about you? (For this we have video footage of Mr. Charles.)
    Mr. Charles during his video interview. I caught him in full uniform and so I thought it the perfect moment for him to speak.
    • How do you feel when you put on your uniform, and does it still feel like the first time, if you remember the first time?

    The first time I put on my uniform, I was five years old. Boys usually are recruited at the age of seven, but somehow, I was accepted at five. It was a proud moment for me to be in uniform and still to this day, whenever I wear it, there is an incredible sense of belonging. Believe me, I am super proud of my troop. I ensure that I am always clean and neat, especially being at the forefront.

    Church Parade Enrollment in 2022. May our numbers forever grow.
    • If you could snap your fingers and have five things appear for your troop. What would they be?

    Snapping right now.

    • Firstly for the troop to survive! Way after I am leader. I’d love to know that it lives to be more than 100 years of existence.
    • Secondly, a spike in membership growth. I am imploring the youth, come join us and you won’t regret it.
    • For the future leaders to always show love and compassion, patience and understanding to the members. Times are changing, but discipline is forever a must when running an institution like this one. The boys and girls (my daughter is a member of the troop) who are seriously interested should be protected at all costs and invested in so that the troop can continue shape the future successful members of society.
    Mr. Charles and daughter both in uniform.

    Help from the public and private sector with our efforts to revamp and survive. We thrived on our exchange of goods and services in the past and we cannot do it without the public. We are right now in need of so many things and sponsorship is needed until we can reestablish and get back on our feet. Check out our wish List, because you may have something that you no longer need or use, that we require.

    Members of the troop paying a visit to Mr. Roy Royer who founded the troop in 1954. He credits scouting for every aspect of his success. His late wife was a Brown Owl (Brownies)
    • Finally, more recognition from present and past members alike of the contributions that scouting made to their lives. We asked quite a few non-active members for a few words to encourage new members and they did not comply. I guess that they are too busy, but I feel that if the troop served them well in their youth, so can it help the present members today. A word of encouragement won’t hurt.

    There were role models for them when they were young, and now the young ones who are active members need role models as well. Stop by the scout den. Give a little account of your days of scouting. Donate some cash. Give some of your time to one of our activities, be it a clean-up, a drill practice session, a fishing expedition or whatever the case may be. It takes nothing for you to give back a little to the troop that sheltered you and kept you out of trouble.

    Beach clean up last Easter.
    The troop did some cummunity service in Morne Daniel.
    • What would you say to a young person doubting joining the movement, particularly your troop?

    My friends. The internet, and technology might be captivating and what you consider fun, but trust me, nothing compares to having the outdoor experiences that scouting offers. You need to experience the thrill of a camp. Starting a fire from a few stones and some twigs. Tracking both people and animals. Let’s not even get started on parades. Have you seen our troop on parade? It’s the best feeling! Being trained in first aid. Understanding the Semaphore code being used when ships pull into the docks. Understanding the Morse code when you hear it in a movie. You may decide that you don’t like it, but at least try it. I can assure you that once you give us a chance, you will begin to understand the magnitude of the movement.

    • Describe your life in three words.

    I love life!

  • Ade Josh. More to him than what meets the eye.

    Ade Josh. More to him than what meets the eye.

    I met Josh at a writing camp by Rekodi Music Publishing, at Abbey Road Studios in London last year (2023). I had already worked the first studio room with producer duo “The Fanatix” who have quite a few great achievements under their belts, and had been rotated to the second.

    ATG a grammy nominated music producer introduced himself and then said that he would throw some beats on the speakers, and we could say what we liked. I was sucked in by the first and immediately headed to the booth. Josh was the third artist to touch on the song and I remember the room just going CRAZY on his verse. We looked at each other while he recorded, covered our mouths and even jumped out of our chairs in reaction, all while trying not to shriek because the vibe was mad! We replayed it so many times. It occurred to me that I was new on the scene and most of the England based artists already knew each other, however I felt welcomed and appreciated.

    I thought that he was of Caribbean decent because his flow reminded me of some of the “rasta” artists back home, but this interview gave me wonderful insight into who he is as a person. I was truly touched by his responses and his lack of timidity when crediting God for everything. I was surely impressed! I followed him on Instagram that night after a long train back to Brighton. I became an honest fan and keep up with his social media content and it is with great joy and respect that I present his interview. Happy Belated Birthday Josh and I hope that we get to musically link again. Blessings and abundance.

    1. Thank you for agreeing to this interview. Blessings.
      May you please introduce yourself for those who may not know who
      you are?

    I am a British born Nigerian, but a child of God first. Artist, song-writer,
    producer, choir lead and a prison music mentor. Music has been the tool I’ve
    been given to understand and navigate through life. My relationship with
    God started with music. My character building has been heavily influenced
    by music. My patience and understanding of time has been molded by
    music. Music is life & what is life without rhythm?

    1. Do you know the meaning of your name and why it was given to you?

    My name is AdeJosh (Ade = Crown, Joshua = Leader) which is also a
    reflection of my relation (Ade = by blood Nigerian, Josh = raised in the UK)
    and that’s what I put into my music, my truth, my environment, the things I
    see and hear.

    This photo is TOO FRESH!

    3. What prompted your interest in music and long ago was that?

    My truth is that I started singing from a very young age, looking up to the
    greats like Usher, Michael Jackson and imitating them move for move,
    how they would dance, perform etc. I was drawn from young knowing that
    I’ll be just like the greats I see on my TV screen.

    4. Did you always know that you could sing?

    No I never, In fact I thought my voice wasn’t great at all because I live in a
    world where great talents like Beyonce, Adele, Justin Bieber etc exist. My vocal skill set wasn’t anything near what they were capable of doing. The good thing about my personal journey is that I’ve been able to understand worth and value. It took me a while to finally realize that I didn’t need to sound the like best of the best, I just needed to be myself, there’s only one me and that’s enough reason for me to believe that my gift isn’t useless and someone out there needs it. I learnt the art of working with the gifts and
    things I have to the best of my ability and found peace in allowing God to do the rest.
    I’ve spent countless hours working on my craft, perfecting it to a point where I know
    there’s only one me & I’m truly grateful for those who been able to see my
    music as a light or source of inspiration.

    5. What is your favourite childhood memory concerning music, if any?

    Growing up education was top priority in an average UK African household. I
    wasn’t the greatest at school so it was difficult to really make my parents happy.
    Fast-forward to 2014 When I released my first song on SoundCloud,
    ‘Silver & Gold’ my father couldn’t believe it was me and it was the first time I
    ever heard him say “Son, I’m proud of you” that’s a memory I’ll never forget.

    6. What comes easier to you, writing or recording songs (Or producing
    maybe? (You definitely give off producer vibes)

    Recording songs, because with music I have to feel it in real-time. It easier
    for me to correct potential mistakes during the recording process, than the
    writing process. I like to personally write and record in the same session.
    With that all being said, I still need to work with a beat I can feel (maybe
    that’s my first point of connection)

    7. What is a fact that many people don’t know about you?

    Growing up I use to do gymnastic, I was actually really good, won some
    awards/competition but the only downside is that they had me wearing
    leotards and summersaulting.

    Mel here, Just to laugh at that last response. LOL!

    8. Does your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual state affect your
    quality/quantity of work, or do you strive to deliver great stuff despite
    what’s going on in your life?

    I’m in a place where I understand each stage in my life still produces what I
    have to say. A few months back I was in a dark space, and I noticed that a lot
    of my music that I was creating in that time period was a reflection of me
    searching for answers. I do believe and have come to terms with understanding those
    bad/hurtful emotions, and that they produce the greatest music. I hate the fact to stay
    this but I surprise myself when I’m hurt.

    9. Was it a difficult start for your musical journey and do you feel like you
    have succeeded today?

    My musical journey felt hard. I never received the support from peers,
    friends, industry. I’ve felt like the gatekeeper’s didn’t want to let me in. I’m
    grateful for those experiences because again these are the situations that
    allowed to understand self-worth without looking for validation. I’ve been
    forced to rely on God because man will fail you. This is a reason why I
    intentionally show love just in case I’m dealing with someone who has or is
    in my shoes. We are all humans & It’s also soften my heart when people selflessly support or show love because I know you don’t have to.

    10. Were you ever afraid or doubtful while writing or recording a
    song, or producing a beat? Have you ever trashed your work?

    Imposter syndrome is a real thing, it’s easy for us to feel like we are not
    good enough. Joshua 1:9 ‘Have I not commanded you? Be strong and
    courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God
    will be with you where you go’ I had to make this verse my screensaver as
    a daily reminder never entertain fear or to fall into doubt.

    This guy is my tribe! @Josh, let me know when you’re starting your church because…..youze preaching!!!

    If yes to the above, what kept you going/writing to still be doing
    music today?

    Humble truth is God has really got me through the dark times. There’s a
    feeling inside you get when you know your time is coming. The main goal is
    just not quit.

    11. I’ve seen clips of you playing the piano. Tell us a little about that.

    My first love is the piano, I was able to understand music through the piano.
    Harmonization, timing, different genres and styles of music, rhythms and
    time signatures. The love of piano in the Church for me.

    I totally stole this from Josh’s Instagram. Insert nervous smiley here. 😀

    12. If you were to meet a music legend (in your opinion), who would
    it be and why?

    There are so many artists I’ve been inspired by and who they have all
    shaped me one way or another. I’d love to meet Stevie wonder, Bruno
    Mars, Potter Payer, Robert Glasper, Chronixx, Wizkid, Burna Boy and Brandy.
    I’m inspired by creativity, and I respect art. I’m all for bring something new to
    the table, experiment with your sound, create music that is 1 of 1, and I
    believe all these artists and more do just that!

    13. When we had our Abbey Road Writing Camp session, I
    observed how well you gel with ATG Music. I especially liked the part
    where you guys modified the baseline. Incredible! Your body
    language said that you were genuinely happy to be there. How does
    good music make you feel?

    I started my whole musically journey with ATG in church, from 0 to seeing
    him Grammy nominated and working with great talent all across the world.
    Shows me everything I need to know about not giving up and putting the
    work in because eventually you’ll the fruits of your labor. Music has always
    been my safe space, a place where problems pause and melodies and
    rhythms flows. There’s a sense of pure connection that produce joy
    whenever I’m in a environment where my spirit is allow to be myself.

    14. What does spirituality mean to you?

    Everything in life is spiritual, everything we see today from the chair in our
    rooms to the car on the roads everything was given spiritual first that then
    manifested into reality and time. My musical journey has made me realized
    in the importance of being spiritually led. Being on the right path allows
    your work to have longevity. There’s a lot of artist that are hear today and
    gone tomorrow.

    1. Can you recall one experience where you knew that you were
      or are absolutely and undoubtedly connected to source?

    I have so many God moments in music, but what comes to mind at the moment is this Mayorkun studio session I was invited to (just to come and
    chill). He never knew who I was, and I was basically part of the
    furniture (quiet and shy). Cut long story short there was beat he was working on, and I really wanted to jump on, but my heart was beating a
    million times faster than normal and I was anxious and fearful of one, looking like
    an idiot, two; sounding like an idiot and three; I didn’t want to be too forward and
    disrespect the person who invited me (because nobody asked me to come
    sing).
    I heard in my head ‘closed mouths don’t get fed’ so I wrote a verse and then
    I prayed ‘God if this is you, please I dont care if he doesn’t recognize my
    talent let him recognize you’
    Then I got up, and asked can I drop a quick idea, was expecting them to
    say no but somehow they agreed (my heart started beating even faster
    now) I go off and record my verse and after recording Mayorkun came to
    me and said “Yooo! go back and thank whatever angel gave you that melody you
    just recorded.”

    16. What do your friends and family think about your music
    journey?

    My people respect what I’m doing because they have never seen me give
    up, they’ve only seen me put in work consistently since starting.
    They see the drive I have and taking talent away, I believe that’s what allow
    them to be inspired by what I do.

    17. Describe yourself/life in three words.

    A Servant, A Leader, A King

  • Michele Henderson. Know her name.

    Michele Henderson. Know her name.

    Hello readers.

    Infinite blessings and love to you all. I am excited to share this next blog.

    This is someone that I felt a strange sweetness about having the opportunity to interview. I grew up hearing the name and when I got into singing myself, I marveled at the fact that I was gracing stages that she had been on. I then began to work with her! It was like seeing and eventually working with a living legend. Her music sets started my journey of appreciation for music genres like zouk, cadence, cadence-lypso etc. She is fluent in English, French, Creole and I’m sure a few that I don’t know about.

    She is a wife, mother, a decorated and rewarded singer-songwriter, performer, recording artist, excellent flutist, and probably an alien because she does not age! From what she lets on, on social media, I’ve seen snippets of farming, and the play-by-play on tennis and cricket matches (lol).

    I saw Chick Corea live thanks to her when I was invited to perform at one concert aboard the Free Winds Cruise Ship. When I delved into my solo career, whenever I would travel to the french islands to perform, I would always be asked ” Do you know Michele Henderson?” and I’d let my pictures and videos do the talking! She is truly respected. Her personality on stage coupled with her voice keeps you enthralled throughout her performance, but getting to know her as a person is a whole other journey. She recently graced the Jazz stages both in Dominica and St. Lucia and the reviews were raving.

    Michele often brings out her flute during her performances. This photo taken by Jordan Jerome in 2022.

    It was an absolute pleasure to interview Michele, and now to share with you. This blog interview, to which she readily agreed and promptly engaged in, was and will always be treasured by me. Do Enjoy.

    • Thank you for agreeing to this interview. It’s a special one for me. May you please introduce yourself and/or your profession for those who may not know who you are?

    My name is Michele C Henderson Delsol.  I am a singer and songwriter from Dominica and Goodwill Ambassador to the Island.

    • How has your musical journey been?

    It’s actually been fun; challenging at times but I have enjoyed the journey.  Glad that I can continue doing what I love.

    • Let me just add here that I have seen her face some crazy challenges on live stage, mics hot, during a show and handle it with something I did not understand at the time. I was a lot younger and would be upset while she was chilled. I remember her saying ” There was a problem on stage yes, and the options were to let it ruin the show, or tend to it in the most professional way. Look now, It’s over. It’s better to move along”. With grace and growth, I too learned to handle difficulties, be it equipment or people, in a much more effective manner.
    • Random number one. Favourite colour and why.

    Colour: Red! It’s just loud and bold. Can’t miss it!

    Here she is on the cover of World Traveller Magazine in 2018. Photo by Darren Louis.
    • Being from this tiny island, I assume that you were raised to be of a certain religion. With your world travels and undoubtedly lessons and experiences, has that changed?

    I was raised a devout Christian yes.  Whereas I don’t particularly subscribe to strict Christian doctrine, there are some tenets I have maintained throughout my life.  However, my views on religion have certainly changed over time.

    • Do you thank a higher power for your success?

    Is that a trick question? Haha. Yes and no.  I am aware that a higher state of spiritual existence is possible for everyone; and that spiritual power is in me and is me; we are one and the same. I liken the existence of a Supreme Being to the collective functioning of all of us spiritual beings on this planet and beyond. And so, I acknowledge the existence of such a power, but I do not detach myself as being separate from it.

    • Interjecting here again. I read the above response so many times. Now, at my level of understanding, I am realizing that this woman has been so far ahead spiritually for a very long time. No wonder she could keep such composure in the face of troubles. It is for sure a deeper understanding.
    This photo is one of my favourite and will forever be a classic!
    • Though there is a slow change, Spirituality is not widely accepted on the island, and even in the Caribbean region (Openly anyway). Were you afraid or doubtful to let the public know where you stand?

    At first, I was shy about having a different point of view on religion, but as I grew in knowledge, I realized that it was only because I was not spiritually mature enough to stand in my truth.  The more I studied about mankind and his spiritual nature, the more confident I became. Eventually, I came into my own and made no apologies for thinking the way that I did.  It was quite liberating.

    • Random number two. What’s your favourite place and why?

    Pedi Temps. That is up on the mountains just between Grand Bay and Pichelin. It is only accessible by a 1 hour hike across a few rivers. It’s my fav place because it is quiet and pristine. Beautifully kept grounds and gardens, fresh water source running near by. No modern amenities. Cousin and family still live there off grid. Just the simple life.

    Pedi temps by the way, is creole for “Lose time” or “To Lose Time.” The description of the place sure has me wanting to lose a few hours there myself. Bookings available? 😀

    • How do your close friends and family feel about your choice of belief, and has it affected business for you?

    I did get some pushback from some friends and family in the beginning, but I am fortunate in that I have the support of my friends and family today.  I don’t think it has affected business for me to be honest.  It’s not something I flout so it does not usually come up. 

    Michele stunned at this year’s St. Lucia Jazz Festival. Everyone loved both her outfit and her performance.
    • Are you currently, or have you encountered any problems that are possibly unique to your spirituality?

    The only problems I have come across are incidences where people have completely false information about my beliefs and people who think like me.  I tend not to make a big deal out of it as I try not to flow energy towards negativity and false information.  I don’t give life to such things.

    • Before you became who you are today, what were your views on the spiritual beliefs that you now hold?

    I did not have many views on anything outside of Christianity except to think that they were not real.  All I knew was what I had been taught.  I grew up to learn that what I knew was just the tip of the iceberg and that there were copious amounts of data on spirituality that had been hidden from me. I came to realize that there was a long journey to truth/self that needed to be taken.

    • Random number three. If Michele wasn’t a singer, what would she be?

    I would be a lawyer. I have a passion for helping people overcome injustice.

    Now I know that I asked quite a few questions on her spiritual beliefs during this interview, and it’s simply because she was one of the first to openly and publicly say that she and energy based being, and is not bound to religion as we are expected to be on this island, and many others. When I began my spiritual journey, she immediately came to mind. I understood that my lack of travel and discovery kept me in a box. I had to later deal with people from all walks of life being an entertainer and with my spiritual journey budding, I dared not discriminate. Instead, I had to open my heart to them as they did to me and my music. Some of the kindest people I know are atheists. Others belong to the LGBTQAI+ community. Some choose science over religion. Who am I, who are we to judge?

    • Have you ever studied spirituality in anyway? If yes how did that help?

    I have done quite a bit of study on the mind, body and spirit.  I have discovered that spirituality, senior to mind and body, can direct the individual’s path in life. Being able to be in tune with your true spiritual self is the greatest superpower one can possess. It has helped me overcome many seemingly insurmountable obstacles and has granted me a freedom I never imagined was possible.

    1. Is there any aspect to your belief you are particularly proud of? why?

    I am proud of the fact that I am who I am with no apologies.  I am true to myself. While I am still a work in progress, I like the person I have become, a lot more than the person I was. 

    1. Describe your life in three words.

    Genuinely at peace!

    My dear readers, I hope that you enjoyed reading this as much as I did putting it together. Blessings, love and awakening to all.

  • David’s Been Here (and he told all!)

    David’s Been Here (and he told all!)

    When I contacted David for this interview, I was a little doubtful that I’d get a “yes.’ Not only did I get one, but his answers were so full of life! I’ve seen so many of his videos and it warmed my heart to see him on my island of Dominica one day! I found out about this bar that I didn’t even know existed. :O

    David Hoffmann is an entrepreneur, foodie and travel host from South Miami, Florida.

    He has been named one of the Top 10 Best Travel Videographers by USA Today and Top 10 Travel Video Sites by OOAworld. David has also won the 2020 Travel Video Alliance Award for Best Culinary Video, and the Top Travel Blog award from CrowdsourcedExplorer. He has had numerous articles written on him and his food filled adventures, and has also done countless interviews, and Dit Mwen Tout is HAPPY and GRATEFUL to be added to that list. Let’s take a dive into David’s world!

    You can find David everywhere with the handle @Davidsbeenhere!

    Thank you for agreeing to this interview. Blessings. May you please introduce yourself for those who may not know who you are?

    It’s my pleasure! Thanks for having me. So, my name is David Hoffmann. I am a world traveler, entrepreneur, and the founder and CEO of David’s Been Here. I’ve been traveling full-time since 2008 and I haven’t looked back.

    • Where in the world are you replying to us from?

    Right now, I’m replying to you from my new storefront in South Miami, Florida! We’re planning on opening in early 2024. Right now, we’re getting everything ready—painting, remodeling, acquiring inventory. We’re located at 5832 Sunset Drive and we’re going to sell my David’s Been Here Hot Sauce, travel gear, and unique hand-made crafts from countries around the world! For people who don’t live in Miami, we’ll have an online store where you can buy anything we have in stock. So, no matter where you live in the world, you can buy our products. It’s the first store of its kind and I hope it makes the world a bit more accessible to people who don’t have the means to travel the way I do.

    UPDATE! David’s store is now open for business!

    • How many countries has David been to, to date? (I worked on cruise ships and touched quite a few ports myself, but I’m betting I’m nowhere close to your total!)

    As of October 2023, I’ve visited 101 countries, with the most recent new country being Indonesia. I have quite a few more to go!

    Trinidad!
    • What’s your zodiac sign? (Haha I’m trying to see if your knack for travel has anything to do with the stars. 😊)

    I’m a Virgo—born September 4, 1985.

    • What prompted you to start this unique concept and when was “David’s Been Here” launched?

    I founded David’s Been Here in my final year of college in 2008, but my love for travel starts long before then. As a kid, my family and I traveled often to visit friends and relatives in other parts of the world. When I was a teenager, I visited my mother’s family in Gubbio, Italy. I didn’t speak Italian and my mom’s family didn’t speak English, so I was lost in translation the whole time. But we were able to bond over food. That’s when I realized that food is something that binds us all together. No matter your race, your culture, what language you speak, food brings people together. It’s universal. It was then that I truly fell in love with travel and decided I wanted it to play a part in my career. I just didn’t know how to make it happen until YouTube came along many years later!

    • Was it a difficult start?

    Yes, very. After I founded David’s Been Here, my first order of business was raising money to fund my travels. I spoke to investors and had to convince them that my dream to make travel accessible to everyone via a new, untested platform like YouTube was viable. Thankfully, I raised $250,000 and was able to hire a full-time videographer and an assistant, who joined me on trips around the world for the next two years. We filmed and released hundreds of short-form episodes during that time, which you can still find on my YouTube channel if you go back far enough. But, because there was no way to monetize content on YouTube back then, we made no money from those videos. I ran out of money in 2010, and we were forced to go back to Miami. I struggled for the next two years because I wanted to be traveling, not selling travel gear and guidebooks on Amazon, which is what I did to make ends meet. I had no money. But eventually, I was able to make enough money to start traveling again in 2012. I’ve been pretty much non-stop since then.

    Jamaica!
    • Your business is of a particular nature. There are so many things to consider when moving from one country to another, from rules and regulations to the type of climate that you’re going to have to face. Is there anything or things in particular that you do before entering a new territory?

    I don’t really talk about it in my videos, but understanding the political climate of any country is key when I’m considering where I want to go. For obvious safety reasons, I stay away from areas where there’s a lot of conflict and violence. Other than that, I do lots of research. I study the laws, customs, and etiquette in each country because there are things we do that are commonplace and acceptable here in the U.S. but can get you in serious trouble if you do them in other parts of the world. Yes, I look up attractions, food, and restaurants that interest me, but I also establish contact with professional guides or “fixers” there, so they can arrange for me to visit and get access to places only a local would know about. I also ask them to arrange cultural activities for me. I love studying maps, and that’s one of the ways I pick the route I’ll take once I’m on the ground. There are a lot of moving parts when I travel.

    • Random! Soccer or football?

    Soccer all day! I grew up playing it. I’m obsessed. I actually live-streamed myself watching the World Cup earlier this year! (2023) I wanted to go, but I had other travel plans that conflicted with it.

    • What could be considered the most dangerous territory that you’ve visited? Dangerous here could refer to anything. Climate, terrain, crime etc.

    Oh man. I think the harshest environment I ever visited was the Sahara Desert in Morocco in 2008. This was very early in my professional travel career. Of course, it’s unbearably hot during the day, and that’s how my time there became dangerous, but not how you might think. While we were there, one of my friends dumped a bucket of well water over my head. It felt cool and refreshing in the moment, but I guess there was some kind of bacteria or parasite in the water, and some of it got in my mouth. A few hours later, we were far out in the desert and I started feeling sick. Before long, I was vomiting uncontrollably, hours from the nearest city. It was awful, and I was terrified. I wound up having to go to a hospital to get my stomach pumped. It’s not an experience I ever want to repeat!

    Mel here! I’m here with my mouth open! OH MY GOD! What an experience, and in the middle of the desert!!!

    What keeps you doing what you do? How do you know that you’re going to be safe and unharmed during your travels and expeditions?

    Oh, that’s an easy question. My two daughters keep me going. Everything I do is for them. I want to build a better life for them and give them things I never could have dreamed of when I was their age. And to answer the second part of your question, the main thought in my mind when I travel is that I want to get back home to them. That’s why I’m very risk averse when I travel. You can’t eliminate all danger, of course. But it’s why I purposely don’t do risky activities or visit conflict zones. I need to get back to my girls when all is set and done.

    Mel here again! I’ve never dropped into someone’s interview that much but I’m here saying “AWWWWW.” As a new mom, I totally get it!

    Guyana!
    1. I’ve seen quite a few of your videos and was delighted to see you on my sweet island of Dominica not too long ago. Accept my late “Welcome!” On your trips you indulge in the culture, customs and food of the people. What’s the strangest food/drink that you’ve tried, or activity that you’ve taken part in? (If you dare say :D)

    Now for a hard question! Haha, I’ve eaten so many strange things over the years, I’ve probably forgotten some of them! I’ve eaten beetle larvae, silkworms, scorpions, centipedes…but the strangest was probably the octopus I ate at the Taejongdae Clam Tents in Busan, South Korea. The cook killed it in front of us and chopped it up into little pieces, but the pieces still squirmed around on the plate like they were still alive! I could feel the little suction cups latching onto my tongue, the insides of my cheeks, and the roof of my mouth as I chewed them. You have to chew them very well or they can grab the inside of your throat when you swallow! On top of that, the raw octopus was definitely an acquired taste. It’s one of the few meals I had in South Korea that I didn’t enjoy.

    :O :O :O

    Oman! Wahiba Sands. This is a spectacular shot!
    1. Have you ever gotten ill from eating something strange and new?

    Yeah, that’s one of the downsides of being a foodie who travels and is open to try anything! I’ve gotten sick a few times while traveling in the last several years—I just don’t talk about it much in my videos. But during my first trip to India in 2018, I started my trip by eating street food for three days straight in Delhi. As I was leaving the city via a train to Agra, I started feeling sick and started throwing up in the train bathroom. I was sick for almost two weeks and could barely eat anything in the next three cities on my itinerary. It sucked, because Indian street food was the main reason I’d booked the trip, but I had to be careful. Luckily, I was good to go by the time I got to Mumbai two weeks later, so I went all out with the food there!

    I also got sick in Kosovo in 2020. I was in the capital, Pristina, and the same thing happened. My guide Erjan and I went for some street food, and we both got horribly sick after arriving back at our hotel. We were both violently ill for about 8 hours, but then we woke up and were fine the next morning.

    And I got really sick in Ghana in 2021. I tried some exotic dishes in Kumasi and woke up vomiting at five in the morning. I was so dehydrated the entire day. My legs and feet were cramping from losing so much water and I still had to go out later that morning and film an entire day in the villages outside the city—including food! It was a rough day to say the least.

    1. What was your favourite part about my beautiful Dominica? In terms of landscape, we are truly one of the most beautiful Caribbean Islands. (Biased for days here, but you understand 😊)

    That’s actually the thing I loved about Dominica the most! The landscapes on the island are gorgeous. The mix of lush, green rainforest, waterfalls, and mountainous landscapes is so beautiful. And then you also have really nice beaches, so you have a bit of everything. You can go hiking, explore the waterfalls, and swim in the ocean all in the same day if you want. It’s a tropical paradise!

    Let it be known people! Daivd approves our lovely Dominica!

    Dominica!
    1. What’s a surprising but unknown fact about you? (Shock me!)

    I’ve been a hustler ever since I was a kid! I used to sell candy and muffins to my classmates at school and I also sold mangoes from our mango tree on the side of the road in Miami. Everyone called me “the muffin man” at school. I almost got suspended for doing it, so I eventually had to stop! But very early on, I knew I had to work for every dollar and that nothing would be handed to me. If I wanted it, I needed to go get it myself.

    1. How do your close friends and family feel about the business that your own/run?

    It’s a mix, honestly. There are some people in my life who are incredibly supportive of what I do, but there are also others who don’t really get it or aren’t into it. It’s something you have to learn to deal with, regardless of what you do. Everyone isn’t going to see your vision for yourself and that’s okay. You just have to be grateful for the ones who do believe in you.

    1. Are you currently, or have you encountered any problems that are possibly unique to your business type? Have you ever been denied entry into a country?

    I’ve never been denied entry into a country, but back in March of 2020, I was exploring Bhutan when the World Health Organization named COVID a global pandemic. Every country started closing their borders, and I had to cut my trip short by four days to hurry up and get out of the country. Otherwise, I’d be stuck there for months with no way home. I had to hop a last-minute flight to Kolkata in India, and then get out of India before their borders closed, too. It was probably the most stressful 24 hours of my life!

    Kenya!
    1. What’s a country that’s on your bucket list that you have not yet gone to?

    There are so many. Egypt and Vietnam are both up there, as are Romania, Nigeria, and Bangladesh. I was supposed to go to Egypt last year, but the plans fell through. I’ve also been chatting with a fellow travel YouTuber who lives in Vietnam about teaming up with him at some point to explore the country. It’s all about getting the timing right.

    1. Random-er! Boat or plane?

    Plane. They’re faster. 😜

    1. When you’re not literally showing us around the world, what are you doing? Do you ever feel the need to slow down, or stop and rest?

    It’s hard for me to rest, if I’m being honest. Being the CEO of a company, there’s always something that needs to be done. Thankfully, I have a great team that helps me with a lot of daily tasks because there’s no way I could get them all done by myself. But I still spend 6-8 hours a day at the office. When I’m not traveling or at the office, I’m with my kids. That’s probably the closest I get to true relaxation, even though I’m usually chasing after them and making sure they stay out of trouble!

    Kashan, Iran!
    • Describe yourself in three words.  

    Driven, outgoing, kind.

  • Amonai Francis (Miss Grenada National Queen 2023)

    Amonai Francis (Miss Grenada National Queen 2023)

    Hello dear readers, and welcome to this, the second interview here at ‘Dit Mwen Tout.’

    When the idea first came about for this blog, there were already specific people that were marked as “need to speak to”, because of their previous interactions with the sister blog ‘Story Mwen To Tell’. However, God said “I got you!” and then there was this pull into the world of endless candidates. It was as if the attention and intention had materialised beautiful people instantly. I came across Miss Francis in the thick of Grenada’s Carnival and pageantry season through a spectacular singer friend of mine (Sonika!) who was on her team.

    I was thrilled when she agreed to the interview! She won the titles of, Miss Photogenic, Best Swimwear, Best Costume and Best Interview along with her crown in August 2023. She also actively and aggressively promoted her platforms of Mental Health Awareness and keeping the Traditional Carnival Alive in Grenada, visiting several high schools for presentations. Miss Francis is also an active member of the Youth Parliament and as a great speaker, gives wonderful presentations and debates.

    Dear readers, I present to you: Amonai Francis!

    Photo by Damion C Jacob.

    Ms Francis, thank you for agreeing to this interview and congratulations on your big win! Blessings. May you please introduce yourself (and your title) for those who may not know who you are?

    Thank you. I am honored. These are such great questions! I am Amonai Francis, the reigning Carnival Queen for Grenada, 2023.

    • Have you competed in pageants before this, the National Queen Pageant? If yes, was this one any different?

    Prior to my participation in the national Carnival Queen Pageant, I did not participate in any other pageants. However, during my secondary school experience, there were many pageant-like competitions in which I participated.

    Photo by Damion C Jacom
    Photo by Damion C Jacob
    Photo by Damion C Jacob
    • What got you into pageantry?

    I entered pageantry out of my love for performing. I also felt that pageantry was a
    very influential industry. To me it was an avenue through which I could showcase my talents as well as advocate against many social ails and issues.

    • What is one fact about you that may surprise people?

    One fact about me that may surprise people is that I live on an island, but I cannot
    swim!

    (So, at this point guys, I’m not only laughing, but also clapping because I have company! haha)

    • I follow my fellow singer and entertainer Sonika, whom I saw posting you and your journey to the Crown very often, and that’s what piqued my interest. There was this particular post where she said that you didn’t feel well but decided to carry out your duties anyway, and did so gracefully! What kept you going through that difficult time?

    It’s always important to me to be optimistic. I take affirmations, positive self-talk, and
    prayer very seriously and so it is very easy for me to find the motivation to get
    through difficult situations.

    Photo by Damion C Jacob
    • Having such a title as the Grenadian National Carnival Queen is big and that crown looks heavy. How do you feel about your responsibilities and obligations as holder of such a title?

    The responsibilities of the title are something I would have thought about even before
    auditioning for the pageant. While there are many, I understand the importance of
    each task and responsibility. I am very enthusiastic about my reign and about helping
    as many people as I can with what I can.

    • How do you balance your public and private life?

    Balance has always been very difficult for me. However, prioritizing (through making
    schedules and the use of calendars) has made it less overwhelming. It’s also important to surround myself with people who are very supportive and understanding.

    Above photos by Sonika McKie who was also part of Amonai’s preparation team on her journey to the Crown.

    • What is your vision for your reign?

    My reign will focus on two areas that I am very passionate about. These are; mental
    health awareness and its sustainability, and revitalization of traditional mas in
    Grenada.

    Amonai on stage in Grenada. Video by Sonika McKie.
    • You’re a very beautiful young woman, and you have a phenomenal voice, but what does beauty mean to you?

    Beauty to me equates to self-love. I think confidence is key. Once you are able to
    embrace yourself fully, that is true beauty.

    Photo by Damion C Jacob
    • I also saw a new report of you leading a special church service in Grenada, aimed at helping people who are suffering from depression and suicidal thoughts and to also remember those for whom it was too late. You mentioned God and spirituality quite confidently. What or Who is God to you?

    As a Christian and specifically a catholic, I do believe in God as a supreme ever-
    loving healer, protector, and model figure. My life purpose and persona all align with
    my catholic beliefs.

    • Were you personally affected by suicide?

    In October 2021, I lost a close friend of mine to suicide and though I was hit by the unpredictability of the occurrence, since then, I gained a clearer picture of the fact that it can also be avoided. Losing my friend really did spark the desire in me to help as many people as possible, who may be facing a difficult time in their life and thinking about giving up.

    • What would you say to the people who think that pageantry, and especially the title of Carnival Queen goes against a “Godly” 

    I think that a lot of Christians have a false concept of what God wants of us. Thus, I would say that industries like pageantry which showcase poise, talent, confidence, and grace; and which also serve as platforms where societal issues are addressed, are great, despite being misunderstood often looked down upon.

    Photo by Damion C Jacob
    • Can you share an experience where you knew that you were absolutely and undoubtedly guided and connected to God?

    My experiences with my faith started as a child. I have never felt disconnected from
    God. I think faith is a journey and it isn’t linear. However, for me, difficult and
    challenging experiences with hurt and pain helped to draw me closer to God. I am an
    active member in my church community which helps me to get to know God even
    more.

    • Do you have a vision board, and can we learn about something that is on there? If yes, have you already achieved that goal?

    The biggest goals on my vision board would be toward my career. I’ve always had a
    dream to sing or dance on Broadway. I do hope I can someday achieve that goal.

    • What is an activity that brings you absolute peace, especially during stressful or hectic times?

    Singing is my source of serenity. Moreover, prayer as well as time with my friends in
    nature also do help.

    • Describe yourself/ life in three words.

    In three words I would say I am kind, sensitive and optimistic.

  • Marigold

    Marigold

    Hello All! I am so happy to be here. This is the first official interview under my new blog: Dit Mwen Tout (Tell Me All) where I share the stories and experiences of others with their permission. It’s been a fun yet challenging process putting it all together and conducting interviews but here we are, with gratitude and joy. 🙂

    Today is actually my birthday and it is with an absolute full heart and the biggest grin on my face that I announce that my first published interview will be the one I did with my…………..MOM!

    I’ve lived with both of my parents for most of my life, with the exception of studying abroad, working on cruise ships and travelling a lot to pursue my music. I think that I am the sibling out of the four of us who spent the most time with them. I did not think that getting this interview done would have been easy because my mom is a rather private person, but she agreed and was delighted to share. Thank you, mom! Have a read of our conversation below. 😀

    1. Thank you for agreeing to this interview. May you please introduce yourself?

    I am Marigold Ulysses. Born Dominican. A wife, sister, aunt, friend and mother of three and one angel. Past employee of the Government of Dominica for 36 years. An aspiring author and creative. I’ve recently dived back into my crochet and embroidery era, after having learned as a child. A big lover of my family and friends.

    2. I am interviewing you firstly because you’re my mom (haha) and secondly because you are one of the strongest people that I know. What would you consider your greatest life achievement?

    My children! I was blessed with four (now three and one angel) and I always give thanks that they all turned out quite fine! The way that they live their lives is a testament. It shows that they were taught right from wrong, and I am happy that they chose right. I guess I can say that I have had a successful working career. I don’t care much for material things so, yes. My children for sure.

    This is the only complete family pic that we have, and that was well over 25 years ago.

    3. You attribute your faith and strength to your own mom (Grand-ma Alma). What is one thing that she taught you that you will never forget?

    I can’t just say one. Love. Honesty. Respect for others. Empathy. To be non-judgemental. She taught me to never give up on the things that I desire. To put faith first and to follow that faith till the end of my demonstration. Along with having faith is having a positive attitude. It helps bring the things that we want. A little warning attached to that was that actions always have consequences, so to at least carefully consider.

    4. Random! What is your favourite colour and why?

    Lilac! I love how calm it makes me feel. It’s not bright and conspicuous but you see it clearly. It is subtle and quiet.

    5. What is one thing that you have tried to or succeeded in teaching your children that you hope they never forget?

    To always have empathy, and to not judge others. Life has a way of taking us down certain roads in order for us to learn valuable lessons and so, do not look down on anyone, no matter their state. Treat them with respect, do your part and move on.

    6. I know how much it hurt you because you were sort of powerless against selling Grand-ma Alma’s house. What would you do if you were given the opportunity to get it back?

    That’s easy! My mom dedicated her life to being of service to others. There is enough space for two buildings on the property. At the front; a soup Kitchen! Behind that would be a Halfway House. My mother was always for the poor. She fed and helped countless people even when she had very little to give. Her house will carry on her legacy.

    7. I have witnessed you help other people, and feed the poor all of my life, just as Grand-ma did. However, (and I’m guessing here like Grand-ma) you’ve always refused for that to be publicized. I’ve seen you expertly duck out of the camera’s way which usually sent me laughing. Can you tell us why?

    My mom always said “What the right hand does, the left hand need not see.”

    I feel that for them it’s kind of humiliating. The poor are people too, with feelings and emotions and in some cases, what is little left of their pride. I like to use dignity. I don’t think that they are comfortable with people taking pics of them in their time of dire need. The internet is a place where pics and videos never really completely disappear. I just don’t like it. I do what I do from the heart and need no publicity to carry out my chosen duties.

    What thou doeth in secret shall be rewarded by the Lord, openly, and my rewards come in the form of blessings.

    My mom did not know I secretly snapped this pic of her during one of her visits to the ‘Home for the Aged.’ This lady is also a family member so let’s hope Mom allows this one 🙂

    8. You’re a member of the St. Vincent de Paul Society in Dominica, and you guys run a feeding program. When it is your turn to prepare the meals, you rise as early as 4am, ensure that your kitchen is clean, and the food is prepared with the most care and love. The finished products are fit for Kings and Queens! You’ve never once put aside from any of those meals for yourself or your family. (and I am not kidding here guys. She shut us out of the kitchen! The whole house would be filled with the scent of the most delicious meals, and we already knew we couldn’t even pinch!) What does Integrity mean to you?

    Trust is to be maintained. Integrity is to do what you are trusted to do even when the opportunity arises to bend or break the rules. Even when you are not being watched or observed. The food I prepare is for the homeless, and not for my household. No matter how good my Mac and Cheese or baked chicken smells, it’s for the poor. They deserve a great meal prepared with love too.

    9. What’s one thing about you that is little known but may surprise people if they were to find out?

    I. AM. AN. INTROVERT. (I can hear the crowd gasping! 😀 )

    Believe it! I function very well in society. I love hosting folk and being social, but that’s rare.

    ****It’s my mom’s interview, but I deserve a little gasp too! Just want to show you guys how much we look alike! 😀

    10. You’ve faced many a difficult situation in life. What kept you grounded through it all?

    Faith. God. Prayers. I’ve always lived by the words “Nothing lasts forever, good or bad. This too shall pass.”

    Mom at one of her early jobs. Look at that thick hair!

    11. Who would you like to meet before you leave this Earth and why?

    Julie Andrews! I just love her.

    12. What’s one time in your life where you received concrete proof that we are being guided by and taken care of by a higher power?

    Boy there were many! They are almost always linked to my supply, of whatever I wanted or needed at the time, and they usually happened very quickly when the situation seemed hopeless, and I had no choice but to give it all to God. When my son was diagnosed with Cardiomyopathy and needed to get out of Dominica in order to survive, God came through. When he was fitted with his first Pacemaker, the cost of the surgery was well over forty thousand usd. (Thats over one hundred thousand Eastern Caribbean Dollars)I was prepared to send in monthly installments and was already calculating when there was a knock at the hospital room door. It was a gentleman from a charity organization informing us that we were selected to have our bill paid in full! My knees will never be too weak to kneel in prayer and thanksgiving!

    There was also an instance where I had lost some very important money. I worked in the government building and so it was a large complex filled with constant human traffic. I had already looked a million times both in the building and in the yard. I decided that I could do no more than trust that God would not let me lose that money. I called on St. Anthony and the next morning (Are ya’ll hearing me? The next morning!) there was my cash, lying out in the open on the walkway, waiting for me. Hundreds of people must have walked over my cash and were blinded by the force protecting my supply.

    13. When my brother got sick and could no longer stay in Dominica, you drew blood from stone and moved heaven and earth to give him a fighting chance at survival. Many people, including a particular doctor tried to discourage you. The doctor had said ‘ He is going to die! Six months tops! Why are you still trying to send him away?” What kept you fueled and how do you feel knowing that six months turned into many years?

    I remember saying “The doctors are not God! They can say whatever they want. My son is not staying here!” I believed that God was the only one to know how long my son would live, but I was for sure going to try. What would a mother not do for her children?

    Early on when we were trying to figure out what was wrong with him, a nurse told me to my face “Ma’am can’t you see that your son is on drugs?” Meanwhile he was going into heart failure.

    My faith kept me going. I felt deep within that I just had to try! After many years with a pacemaker and eventually a LVAD he passed away December 2022 . Though I am sad that he is gone, I know that his quality of life improved greatly because of what his family did for him. Sleep in peace my beloved.

    My mom and brother standing at Grand-ma’s front door.

    14. What are your views on spirituality?

    There is religion and I guess we each have ours, including those who choose not to have any. I believe that spirituality is the acknowledgement of the connection to the “other side”. It’s in the guardian angels that save our lives, the sense of wellbeing that comes from knowing that we are not alone and in the transitioned family members who visit us every once in a while, with blessings, good news or warnings. Permit me to tell a little story here. Since her death, I have not dreamt of my mother much. I feel her rather. But the times that I did dream of her were quite something. I dreamt of her TWICE giving me soursops to eat. The skins of the fruit were black, and they were ripe and ready to eat. As if by some miracle on both occasions I was sent soursop by friends or family that very week and I did as I was told in the dreams. I ate them. Soursop is praised for its supreme cancer fighting qualities and a tea from the leaves is a common drink in the Caribbean. Very shortly after having both dreams were the cancer diagnosis of my two brothers, one passed away in 2020. No one or nothing can tell me that my mother wasn’t preparing me for the news, while simultaneously protecting me from a diagnosis of my own as well. Bless her soul!

    All Soul’s Day. 2022.

    15. You know what it feels like unfortunately, to lose both your parents and a child. Any words of encouragement for people going through the loss of a dear one?

    It is not an easy road. Grieve for as long as you need to. Everyone grieves or mourns differently and for various periods of time. Pace yourself. Some days will feel like you’re getting there and other days the wound is fresh and bleeds like crazy. Be gentle with yourself. Cry. Scream. Be alone. Go out and have fun. Whatever make you feel better in accepting the loss. Keep the great memories, they help!

    16. Random-er. favourite movie and why.

    The Sound of music! Julie Andrews in in it. No reason needed after that! 😀

    17. Describe yourself in three words.

    Happy. Down-to-Earth. Intuitive.

  • Dit Mwen Tout (Tell Me All)

    Hello and welcome to my blog!

    I am Mel Daniels (also known as Navy the singer.) This my second blog site and so I am overly excited! 😀

    Special greeting to the readers of our sister blog: Story Mwen To Tell! I hope that you guys find equally interesting content here.

    After receiving such interactive comments on my other blog site’s posts, and having people message me telling of similar or opposite experiences, I decided that I should create an opportunity for those stories to be shared in full. This is a space where others agreed to share their stories and experiences with me.

    Dit Mwen Tout means “Tell Me All” in my native language of Creole and boy do we have some good interviews in store for you! Stay tuned!

    Love, Light and Blogs! 🙂

    Mel Daniels ( Navy)